I can relate to this post. (Apart from the divorced bit. I haven’t got that far yet!) Staying single, strong and comfortable with my own company is important for me. To make me realise I don’t need to rely on a man for my happiness and security.
Yesterday my guy cousin’s friend asked me about dating since my divorce and how I’ve managed to stay single for this long. And if I missed having a guy around.
My response was so astounding that he made me repeat it over and over again until he wrote it down so he could tell it his friends.
When I first left my ex I was unhealthy and needy so because of that I was constantly searching for a replacement. I got into many unhealthy relationships that didn’t lead anywhere other then talking and a date or two. But other then that they ended as they should’ve.
Then I finally took the time out to do some soul searching and the work that I needed to do. See when you’re in an unhealthy relationship you spend all your time and energy focused on the relationship and trying to make it work…
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